Advice to the Heartbroken

You deserve better. You deserve to be fought for, to be wanted. Not to be lied to or cheated on. Your the girl all the guys want and any guy would be lucky to have you, lucky that you even give them the time of day. Because lets face it, you are way to gorgeous for anyone around here. Yeah you love him, and yeah it sucks and it hurts, but it will be ok! We as humans are built for heartbreak, it makes us stronger. We're built to withstand it. Because we can overcome it and we come out stronger and smarter than before. We learn from it and apply it in the future. We learn to not put up with the bullshit, we learn that we are more than what we value ourselves at. We learn that we deserve the best. We accept the love we think we deserve, until that love destorys us. Then we finally realize we deserve the best. We shouldn't settle for less, but demand the best. So stay strong sweet girl, keep you're head up, and make him realize what he lost and will NEVER get back. Make sure your upgrade is your Prince Charming (and the sexiest damn Prince Charming you can find) because you deserve to be treated like someone's Cinderella. And there is a guy out there that will do that, a guy that will appreciate you, and love everything about you. Love your flaws, your quirks, your demand for attention, your jealousy, the way you look at him, the way you just want his arms around you. There is a guy out there who will never break you. Who will treat you like the princess you are. He will take the pieces that you can't fix yourself and fix them for you, he will make you whole again. He will make you realize that what you thought was Love was nothing. He will show you what true love is and give you your fairytale.

So overcome this heartbreak! Yeah it sucks so hard right now, yeah you want nothing more than to take him back or continue to give him chances. But can you trust him? Does he love you the way you do him? Is it worth it? Because honestly, during the breakup remember what was said. Remember the mean hurtful things, because these are things he is really thinking, but never wants to actually say. He says them because he is angry. His true character and colors are showing and is that really something you want to be with? Is that anger something you want to keep around for the rest of your life? Is he worth it?  Continue to be strong. You will overcome the heartbreak, you will grow and develop into this amazing, beautiful, talented woman, and then find the man of your dreams. He will finally find you, when you are ready, he will make all the pain you feel now seem like nothing. 

Keep your smile strong and stay beautiful. Do not show anyone your pain, because that will just satisfy him, keep your head up. If you need to cry, cry but only with those closest to you or behind closed doors. Show him that you don't need him, and that you don't care. 

And remember, you will find the love that is meant for you. And he is not it.